Things to be discussed before wedding

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Communication to a relationship is like Oxygen to live. I am not saying discussing the things listed below will make your marriage life blissful or free from fights.Things to be discussed before the wedding. These are just hints of what to expect from your better half.There is no such thing as a peaceful marriage. Before marriage, you are responsible for your own success and failure.But after marriage, your success and failure are seen collectively as one. Nothing is fixed is in this life. There is no defined formula for all problems.Everything runs on a trial and error method. The strategy that your mother got from your grandmother neither worked for her nor will work for you. Your life is your own classroom either you choose to teach or learn depends on you and you must also be open to interchange your roles. There is an old Tamil song which goes like this…

“MARUVADHAI PURINDHU KONDAL MAYAKAM THEYLINDHU VIDUM”

meaning when you understand that you’re in a transformative stage there will be clarity in thought. One cannot always be in control of the situation. Problems come, you worry, you get irritated, you overact, you will feel needy. Now, this is where couples help out each other. The things you discuss before the wedding helps to pacify each other or helps each other during a crisis.

The things you should discuss before the wedding are:

  • Where do we make our home?

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    • Outstanding debts.

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    • Bill Sharing.

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    • Bank Accounts.

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    • Children.

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    • Religion/ Faith.

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    • Family Obligation.

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    • Name change.

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    • TV in Bedroom.

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    • Divison of household chores.

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    • Vacations.

    • Health.

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    • Past Relations.

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    • What makes you Angry/ Jealous/Insecure.

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  • Honeymoon Plans.

Couples fight, our parents fought but have you ever heard their arguments it would be about common household issues or how their sacrifice is undermined.The core of any fight is either one these. The solution is also as simple as the problem. The solution is also as simple as the problem. If a household issue is the problem discuss the issue make the other person understand that you both are on the same side. And if household chores are the problem divide the work among yourself or hire a help. Undermining sacrifice is the most common problem with the simplest solution called Appreciation. Appreciate your wife for washing and pressing your dress. Likewise, appreciate your husband for spending time with you on the one day that he gets off from work.Remember the best person to talk to about the problems in your relationship is the person you’re in a relationship with.

2017-05-02T19:30:26+00:00

2 Comments

  1. Navya n February 4, 2017 at 1:51 pm

    Very well written…. Enjoying it:)

    • madrasibride February 8, 2017 at 3:27 pm

      Thank You, Navya !!

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